Why the "Conquering" Mindset Will Fail in the Age of AI
The future belongs to the collaborators.
I have been spending a lot of time in “AI rooms” lately. I’m in the Zoom webinars, the Discord channels, and conference halls. And I’ve noticed a distinct difference in the vocabulary being used.
The loudest voices on stage often talk about AI with the language of war and conquest. They talk about “mastering” the algorithms, “crushing” the competition, and “automating” away the friction. The energy feels like it’s about climbing on top of the technology to wield it like a weapon.
It feels like a race. It feels like conquering.
But when I step out of those rooms and see how I actually use AI, my feelings are very different. I have caution, and awe even. I question. I experiment. I learn. I’m not sure I know where this technology is heading or what the implications are. I am excited but also conflicted.
When I talk to my clients, authors, editors, and publishing pros, the conversation shifts entirely.
They don’t ask, “How can I use this to dominate?” They ask, “How can this help me think?” Or “How can AI take away busy work that prevents me from thinking about my work?” They talk about “brainstorming,” “enhancing,” and “drafting.” The energy is more relational.
My theory is this: The conquering mindset misunderstands what AI can actually be.
If you view AI as a territory to be conquered, you are fighting a losing battle. The technology is moving too fast; you cannot “beat” it at its own game of speed and volume.
The “Collaborator” mindset, the one that treats AI not as a servant to be commanded, but as a co-intelligence to create with, that is where the magic happens. The technology deserves our respect and awe.
Wharton professor Ethan Mollick calls this “Co-Intelligence,” and recent studies are beginning to back this up. We are seeing that the most effective users of AI aren’t the ones who blindly trust it to do all the work (the conquerors). The most effective users treat the AI like a partner.
The Conqueror uses AI to replace human effort.
The Collaborator uses AI to extend human capability.
In publishing, we know that the best books aren’t made in a vacuum. They are co-created between author and editor, between publicist and reader. We are an industry built on collaboration.
This is why I believe that despite the noise coming from the tech world, the future of this technology belongs to the collaborators.
In the new work reality, raw output won’t be enough. We are about to be drowned in “good enough” content generated by conquerors. The spam is already unbearable. The work that will stand out, the books that will sell, the campaigns that will resonate, will come from those who learned to dance with the technology rather than trying to wrestle it to the ground.
If you have felt alienated by the aggressive, hyper-optimized talk surrounding AI, I want to tell you: You aren’t doing it wrong.
Your instinct to pause, question, and look for partnership rather than dominance is actually your competitive advantage.
We don’t need more conquerors. We need better collaborators.
I’d love to hear from you: Does this distinction resonate with what you’re seeing? Do you feel the pressure to “master” AI, or are you finding ways to “partner” with it?
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Very similar to my philosophy as a healing practitioner. Healing, health and well-being aren’t about fighting (or even managing) disease and symptoms. Healing is about bringing yourself into a state of harmony.
I see it as collaborative.